They usually say that anniversary presents are not necessary anymore for couples who have been together for almost half of their lives. I beg to differ. This is, for me, unreasonable. Couples may say that presents don?t matter as long as they are together. But no matter how they say it?s not important, they still think about it. Women still wonder what they will get and they still look around for something to give their better half. And men may still realize that?s it?s the day, on the day itself and would still think of something to give their partners as an anniversary gift. So if you will ask me if it is necessary to give gifts on anniversaries, you bet I?ll say ?yes.?Anniversaries are days that you have to be thankful for. Why? Think of the divorce rate all over the world. You two are still lucky for being able to stick together and be still in love with each other. A year has passed and you two were able to keep your promises intact. You two survived another year together. This is the time to thank your better half for staying by your side when you were grumpy, sick and down. This is your chance to show her your gratitude for believing in your crazy ideas and celebrating with you whenever you win your battles. Think it through. Who said you don?t need presents anymore on anniversaries?Not finding the necessity of this simple yet powerful gesture is one reason why marriages or relationships for that matter weaken. Think of the word consistency. When you were still courting her, you give her things, big or small, cheap or expensive almost everyday. Now that you have gotten her devote her life to you and to you alone, you will stop giving her presents? I don?t think that is a smart move. Believe it or not, being consistent in your ways of showing her you love her continuously strengthens the foundation of your love for each other.One thing that you need to remember is that, women, will always remember anniversaries as a very important event in their lives. No matter how old they are. Even if she tells you that it?s alright to not give her anything at all, she is still wishing and hoping that you will give her something special. And she also, and never fails to, thinks of giving you something back on that day as well. That?s why she keeps on cooking your favorite dish on your anniversary. That?s why she goes to her hair stylist and buys a new dress on that day. She prepares for it and you should do the same thing.The thing here is, it doesn?t need to be expensive or grand. If you have the money, then give her a car. That would be nice! As long as you can afford it ? that is. It can be something simple. A book, a scarf, a card with a charms bracelet or even a poem you yourself composed. The point here is you remembered and you prepared something for her. Women are actually easy to please. They love presents big or small. They are actually after the idea that you did not forget. That?s the most important thing about it.So, the next time you think twice about getting an anniversary present for your lovely woman, give yourself a kick in the butt! Are you crazy? Get yourself together and go to the nearest gift shop! Buy her something special. You are too busy? Go on line. What?s eBay for? Remember: it does not have to be expensive. It?s the thought that counts.
Source: http://headlinenews.talkposts.com/2012/08/07/anniversaries-%E2%80%93-are-gifts-necessary/
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